tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post7261479297617131118..comments2023-10-18T04:47:23.944-04:00Comments on Lessons: Sweet Mother, Not!NewLifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15207557984532557915noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-24327669268012909882011-03-03T21:57:48.352-05:002011-03-03T21:57:48.352-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Covnitkepr1https://www.blogger.com/profile/14155059748601952927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-33695377112619585652010-11-30T14:58:16.185-05:002010-11-30T14:58:16.185-05:00Good you have realised you haven't totally for...Good you have realised you haven't totally forgiven and are working towards it.<br />I felt unloved as a child and tried to take my own life on several occassions. <br />The Love of God is available to all and heals all pains. I can relate to hurts and pains and I testify to God's healing power.<br />Love lots.author:thisisthediaryofanotmadblackwomanhttp://www.thisisthediaryofanotmadblackwoman.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-43152915459182438952010-11-24T05:04:13.347-05:002010-11-24T05:04:13.347-05:00@New Life: I'm doing good sis...how are you do...@New Life: I'm doing good sis...how are you doing? I trust well. Thanks for all the prayers..Hadassahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09667206011492798168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-8903999293725080282010-11-17T15:41:11.391-05:002010-11-17T15:41:11.391-05:00You have a gift and this post is such a wake-up ca...You have a gift and this post is such a wake-up call to everyone that if YOUR actions, as a parent, are so crucial to someone's life. You are so right, when you decide to not only have a baby but opt out of adoption, you NEED to act in a responsible way! And take care of the human beings that you've brought into this world. Thank you for being so transparent in this post.Shelby S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13682660285683727225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-26981497335283177712010-11-12T19:50:03.257-05:002010-11-12T19:50:03.257-05:00Hey! Have sent you an email.Hey! Have sent you an email.Nikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00166275562101471285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-1540210446758541602010-10-24T05:07:23.748-04:002010-10-24T05:07:23.748-04:00I just stumbled on your blog and I want to hug you...I just stumbled on your blog and I want to hug you and ask you out for drinks/coffee or something! Your story sounds just like mine, from the detached unemployed mother to the holy "christian" mother reaction to a surprise pregnancy. CONGRATS on the new baby and it sounds like you have a great example of what your kids do NOT need in a mother, so go ahead and be that Super Mama!! Great PostPhotoStory Collectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15278073307527892159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-33799625269432761552010-10-22T22:31:08.607-04:002010-10-22T22:31:08.607-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Covnitkepr1https://www.blogger.com/profile/14155059748601952927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-53512057271836238192010-10-07T11:00:30.676-04:002010-10-07T11:00:30.676-04:00Aww hugs sis. Thank God for your father. God is go...Aww hugs sis. Thank God for your father. God is good and He has already equipped you with all you need to make you a wonderful mum. God bless.Hadassahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09667206011492798168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-74874938445699358582010-09-30T17:41:04.527-04:002010-09-30T17:41:04.527-04:00WOW! This reminds me of me - but with my father, t...WOW! This reminds me of me - but with my father, the passing of the sister, the baby during uni and pre-wedding. It is freaking me out actually.<br /><br />I think that you're in no danger of being the sort of mum your mum has been so far. You have already admitted and are addressing your issues...by reading, writing, talking etc. You're well on the way.<br /><br />I'm not sure what else to say hun, as this has really struck a cord. Just know that you're in my prayers. I just couldn't read it and run, but you'll be in my thoughts. <br /><br />xx<br /><br />MMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11531255491206610252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-7805385801879644272010-09-27T09:15:20.851-04:002010-09-27T09:15:20.851-04:00Hey! I hope your doing much better?
Thinking of yo...Hey! I hope your doing much better?<br />Thinking of you and praying for you. Will be in touch via email real soon. xNikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00166275562101471285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-70523034996053577032010-09-19T07:35:20.910-04:002010-09-19T07:35:20.910-04:00@ Andrea
I know right? thanks for reading
@braids...@ Andrea<br />I know right? thanks for reading<br />@braids<br />*hugs* sometimes I feel like I'm crazy to feel these things that I do, I'm glad another sister relates. I'm sorry you were not able to contact me, my email is cleansed.new@gmail.com, I will make an attempt to adjust my settings, please leave me a comment whenever you send me an email because I don't check that email often, I will really love to chat/correspond with you.<br />I have to change the direction of my prayers, thanks for that revelation.<br />What you said has resonated with me for a few days now, I shouldn't try to be a better mother than my mother, life is truly not a competition. I really can't thank you enough, you are so wise.<br />@jhazmyn<br />the journey is not quite easy, but I'm committed to it, thank you :)<br />@Niki<br />thank you, I appreciate the prayersNewLifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15207557984532557915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-44038196784583457692010-09-19T00:21:05.923-04:002010-09-19T00:21:05.923-04:00Hey!
I'm thinking of you and praying for you.
...Hey!<br />I'm thinking of you and praying for you.<br />It is well.<br />xxxNikinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-54072781940841243572010-09-16T04:28:41.173-04:002010-09-16T04:28:41.173-04:00Wow, I saw this yesterday but just got round to re...Wow, I saw this yesterday but just got round to reading it today. Sometimes, it takes a lot from us to confront our past and the people that have truly hurt us, but the fact that you're doing that right now, makes me respect you more.<br /><br />I'm glad for where God has brought you, and He would build you up to be the best mother you could ever dream of being...I hope you get to find that place of total forgiveness (((hugs)))jhazmynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00937354854181520677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-39161415069120359512010-09-14T13:57:22.253-04:002010-09-14T13:57:22.253-04:00There is nothing more that I want to do right now ...There is nothing more that I want to do right now but give you a hug. Your post has cut me like a knife as it was like I was reading my own relationship, feelings and thoughts towards my mother.<br />There is so much I would love to say to you, actually your blog itself, there are a few posts I can totally relate to and I had tried contacting you to send you an email but I think you have disabled that gadget.<br />Just know my dear that Jesus loves you. I don't want to preach to you and give you a whole load of scriptures about forgivness etc as that would make me a hyprocrite but let me tell you something that is workiing for me and thats prayer. Pray and talk to God. Converse with Him as you would do to your husband or friend and tell Him exactlly how your feeling about your mother and past pain. You'll be amazed at how you feel afterwards. Alot of people feel that when praying they have to be conservative and formal and therfore have no real connection to God whilst praying to Him, but its important to remember that Hes your Father so you can go to Him wth anything and that He is God who already knows what your going to say before you even speak and also knows what your holding back from Him, so you might as well let it all out. <br /><br />Then make a decision as to whether or not your willing to forgive your mother and if yes, then understand that its going to be a process and ask God to work on your heart. <br /><br />Lastly pray for your mother. Someone told me to do so a few weeks ago when I was relating to the person why my mother should burn in hell. I was reminded of Luke 6:27-28 - "But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.<br /><br /><br /><br />I'm not yet a mother, shoo I'm not even married but babe, don't try to be a better mother than your own mother. Life is not a competition, rather be a godly mother, the mother God has called you to be be. I have found that when people focus on being better at something than somebody else, they usually end up failing....miserably and ultimately end up becomiing the person they didn't want to become. Good works don't make someone a christian, however our good works are evident of a person being in Christ, hope I'm making sense?<br /><br /><br /><br />Congrats on your pregnancy and do try to take it easy. Don't stress yourself out, instead hand your stress, your pain, your worries, your past over to the One whose strong shoulders can bear all- Phlippians 4:6<br /><br /><br /><br />Your life is a testimony, He has given you beauty for ashes, your life story is that of hope.....have you even read your own blog?<br /><br /><br /><br />Be encouraged.<br /><br />Isaiah 43:18-19Nikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00166275562101471285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1633047663306998232.post-63227436645673476372010-09-14T13:56:44.993-04:002010-09-14T13:56:44.993-04:00Wow, this post is very touchy. I can relateWow, this post is very touchy. I can relateAndreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15221629896741930249noreply@blogger.com